Favourite Iddy posts

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Favourite Iddy posts
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Thu, 03-29-2012 - 9:00pm
Iddy shared so much wisdom with us. Newcomers who didn't have the pleasure of hearing from her directly shouldn't be deprived of all she gave us. I thought we could collect our favourites here.

Here is a favourite I came across while digging for comfort and desperate to make sense of what I'd been involved in. Iddy was always ready to tell us like it was:

There have been several posts made in reference to how you would still be in your affairs if it hadn't ended the way it did. We all understand that feelings do not diminish just because a relationship is over, but this was AN AFFAIR people. They are selfish and destructive, and no matter how pretty you wrap these lethal boxes of lies and deceipt, they still contain time bombs waitig to explode in someone's face. So my point is, ENOUGH ALREADY. I, (and most enders here), don't need to read how you would still be in La La Land if X, Y, or Z hadn't spoiled it.

With that said, Happy Labor Day weekend and make it count! (3 more days of NC) !!

Take care and be safe. ~Iddy~

March on. Do not tarry. To go forward is to move toward perfection. March on, and fear not the thorns, or the sharp stones on life's path. Kahlil Gibran

Here is the link:
http://forums.ivillage.ca/t5/Ending-Your-Affair-Support/Tough-Love/m-p/107966882
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Fri, 03-30-2012 - 2:47am
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Fri, 03-30-2012 - 12:13pm

A private PM from Iddy:

I love you, and you are worthy of a good life.