1st post.....do i take the calls or not?

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Registered: 05-05-2004
1st post.....do i take the calls or not?
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Mon, 05-10-2004 - 7:46am
hello all! i love this place. I finally feel like i fit in somewhere.

I need help.....I am not sure if i should take my MM's calls today. He couldn't bother to call me yesterday. i realize it was mother's day but we have other ways to communticat. Such as email or text messages via our cell phones. I made 4 contacts while he only responded once all day. And the message was stupid not sure why he even sent that! i don't know if i should answer or not. i hate the way i feel right now. We had a date planned today. so i know if i don't take the calls i don't get the date!!!

I really want to cry this minute! please give me any advice you think will help my sorry but!


Saag

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 8:25am
Hey there,

no more calls!! Let him give you a call. Its his turn not yours. If you don't get that date its ok, at least you did not loose your self respect over it!!


Juliet

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Registered: 05-05-2004
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 10:40am
thank you juliet! and guess what he called. says w is on to the cell phonne texts so he couldn't send anything. i am tryig hard to have some respect for myself but it is hard.

thanks again!

Saag

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Registered: 04-14-2004
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 11:06am
I'm sorry you are feeling this way. I didn't hear from my MM this weekend, and normally don't. I have told him do not take chances on the weekends, it's ok things can wait until Monday. This may have been the case with you MM. He may not have had a few minutes to contact you. DON'T cancel today, because of N/C from him yesterday.

I will be ok, hang in there, and enjoy seeing him today.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 05-10-2004 - 11:07am
saag,

when going gets tough the tough get going... You'll be fine. Take heart now.

Juliet.