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1st time NC
| Thu, 12-18-2008 - 3:07pm |
Well....first time ***REAL*** NC :( starts today and I am sad.
AP's W works for a school district and Christmas break starts for her today, won't really speak to AP until

I would be real careful about going to AP's home to have sex. Or to see him, for that matter. One never knows when someone could come home unexpectedly, and wouldn't THAT be beautiful. It's just not a good idea, any way you look at it. And don't listen to him. He's thinking with the wrong head. All of us at some time or another pop home for some reason. You do NOT want to find yourself in that situation. Plus, be honest, isn't there a part of you that thinks it's even just a tad bit icky to be fooling around with him in her home? Maybe it's just me, but I would feel VERY uncomfortable.
Also, you said you were married, too in your other post. So the same goes for you. I wouldn't be taking him home. Ever.
I guess we all take some sort of risk(s) when engaging in this kind of behavior. She happens to work about an hour away from home, so that makes it a bit easier.
Tacky for fooling around in her home? Nope
Never ever ever have I stepped a foot into their bedroom. He brought up that she was going home to see family for a week in the spring and asked how easy it would be for me to be gone from home all night one night (I work 12 hour night shifts) because he would love to sleep with me...just sleep, once. And I asked if we would be bedding down on the floor and he said "uh no, I have a bed". I told him I could not sleep in "their" bed.
Maybe some of you all think I am the world's worst person for seeing her H in their home, but I would NEVER go into their bed, not even their bedroom.
I thought this was a support board? Feels more attacking in nature.