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2 months
| Wed, 06-03-2009 - 10:16pm |
2 months today since XAP and I "broke up" or I should say, 2 months since he twisted things around and made it look like I did something wrong so he could go running back to his wife... for the 6th time in a year and a half. A gal I work with said she lives close by to him and drives by his house every other day and his vehicle is parked in the driveway. I knew the ball-less bastard wouldn't go through with the divorce and move right back in. That's why he accused ME of playing games with him by not running right down to my attorney to start my divorce....some days are hard when my heart tries to take over, but my head reminds it of how there were more bad times then good.

It sounds like your life will be infinitely better w/o him.
Have you considered following the No Contact Rules to make this less painful for you?
Also, here is a great website for inspiration . . .
http://www.baggagereclaim.com/
Keep avoiding him.Working together can be tough when R goes sour.Sorry about the place you are in.Gradually it will fade away.
But I'll say this . . . when you are having an A w/ a coworker - and things are good - you are in as early as possible, you are smiling all the time, when you have a crisis occur there is someone there who LOVES you to bits and thinks you are THE BEST, and you never miss a day of work if you can help it. Unfortunately these are far and away outweighed by the incredible pain of an A gone south w/ a coworker . .
I think you have an amazing amount of self control to go NC at work - you are so STRONG!!!