20 year reunion with ex lover - help

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Registered: 12-07-2009
20 year reunion with ex lover - help
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Tue, 12-08-2009 - 10:31am
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Registered: 09-07-2009
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 12:47pm

I could of written this post our stories are so similar.
I wish I could tell you it was gonna get easier but believe me it won't.

Looking back I would still of done what we did. It was this time of year too. Almost to the day.




Edited 12/10/2009 8:21 pm ET by nevermoreuk
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Tue, 12-08-2009 - 3:06pm

Nevermore--are you still involved? I am really going to try to walk away from this before I get too emotionally invested. I knew after our reunion that there was no where for this to go. He lives in another state and I feel certain (although we didn't talk about our marriages or spouses) that

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Registered: 10-10-2009
Tue, 12-08-2009 - 10:19pm
Aww sweetie...tough decisions for you. I think its a lil too late tho.. I think you are already emotionally attached to him. Maybe you can continue your relationship with him. Let some of the newness wear off and then set up some boundaries for yourself.
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Registered: 09-07-2009
Wed, 12-09-2009 - 2:19am
Its complicated. The affair became consuming.



Edited 12/10/2009 8:20 pm ET by nevermoreuk
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Wed, 12-09-2009 - 10:04am
Nevermore, I just tried to send you an email but it came back as undeliverable. Will you email me?
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Thu, 12-10-2009 - 8:17pm
My profile settings allow email I wonder what happened--let me take a look. I will try you as well.