30+ m wants affair w/40+; how approach?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
30+ m wants affair w/40+; how approach?
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Wed, 01-14-2004 - 10:48pm
There is an attractive 40+ women in an athletic class I'm taking. What do women look for in men and what steps can I take to begin a relationship?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 12:46pm
Who's married? you or her? does she show any interest in you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 11:22pm
I'm married and I believe she's married.

From my impression she has shown interest with smiles and initiating light conversation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2003
Thu, 01-15-2004 - 11:30pm

hmmm... viewer... I'm not a one for encouraging an EMA... as I feel that you need to weigh the risks and any consequences up before going there.


That said... I'm still here to help :)


I can't really say what a woman looks for in a man... I'm not quite sure that MM would have turned my head had he walked up to me in a bar.

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