What the hell? What I want to ask you is why in God's name do you want to have sex with this weirdo? I mean, seriously. Who demands that someone say they would leave their husband and do whatever that person wants in order to sleep with them? Um, what about him leaving his wife? Of course not! If you were to ascribe to this wack job's rules, you would leave your husband and bark like a dog while he stays married. What a puke. Sorry...I don't know what else to say about him. If I had been the one in the situation, I would have laughed at him and then shook my head on the way out the door. He sounds like a sick ticket.
So, my fat guess is that you didn't listen to all the good advice we gave you the last time and this is what you get. It has to take a 54-years old MM to deny you sex before you realize how dumb your actions are? Geez, a 54-years old man saying no to sex with a 24-years young lady. What is this world coming to. How "low" can you go..... I wouldn't flatter myself with the reasons why he wouldn't do it with you. It just shows you how weird and controlling he is.....'cause if he really wanted to, even a chicken wouldn't say no to free feed.
I hope you learned something from this. Your letting your fantasy with this (closer to 60 than 30) Old(der) man rule your good senses. I hope you didn't completely blow your reputation and hard (school) work by letting this joker play you like that. Realized by now that he probably have ZERO respect for you. I just hope he's not a "tattle tale". It will be hard work now to redeem yourself but it can be done. I would totally stay away from this "clown" though. Change classes or school if I have to.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
Are you kidding? Listen dolly, i am nearly as 'old' as this old guy and you , old enough to be my daughter. This oldie is no good.He is absolutely on power trip! Can you really not see?? He is extremely manipulative.He will have you done and then disappear.What will you do? He is a psycho,no doubt.A 54 year oldie wanting a 24 year to leave her H for him? Who knows how many has he done before?At 54,he is rotten and wants to feel ripe again.Sick.
Go complete NC and read all the replies here again.
Set yourself free from him his clutches.Seriously.Any man, IMHO, who chases a woman more than 10 years younger is really sick.I am not generalizing and not even wanting to debate on this age issue .Thats MY HO.
And furthermore, he is one big cliche. The professor wanting to sleep with the student. How cliche can you get? You're probably just his Student of the Term. Next term it will be some other chippy. Run for your life. For you to even be considering or wanting it with this buffoon doesn't say much about you, I'm sorry to say. Don't throw your integrity out the window on this f*ckwit.
When I was 30 I started an affair with a married 54 year old professor. That was many years ago, he has since passed away and I have since divorced after being caught in a second affair.
A couple of aspects of my story are different than yours, I was not his student and we were long distance. But, he did leave his wife and I never did leave my H. The relationship did not end up well. He too tried to put lots of conditions on me and he ended up being very controlling even eventually turning into an almost stalker-like persona. Made me feel very good that we were long distance.
Sometimes age differences work. But in this case, as in mine, the warning signs are there. I think you might want to heed them before it is too late.
If you do choose to go down this road, which you very well might, because my guess on his "indecisiveness" now is that it is just for show to see how far you will go, then just be careful.
He sounds creepy to me. Not because of the age difference, because of course he wants to have sex with you. What 54 year old doesn't want to sleep with a younger woman? No, he sounds creepy to me because of his game playing and demands.
I know you have a professor fantasy. I'm not really sure why, to be honest. He's just a man. So what if he's your professor? But it's your fantasy, not mine. If you feel you absolutely must fulfill it, I'd maybe look around for somebody else. Someone who isn't such a control freak, which I have no doubt he is. Or maybe you could just have your husband don a tweed jacket, some glasses and stick a pipe in his mouth and pretend to be a professor. That way you're not jeopardizing your marriage for something that I am absolutely positive will not end up being as great as you may think it will.
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Okay, I'm confused - I guess as much as you.
You said "he refused to take me unless I promise to leave my husband at his command and unless I am willing to do whatever he wants sexually"
So, do you really think it was because you weren't willing to do what he wanted to do sexually?
The old fool (ok he is 54..not 'old' but old compared
So, my fat guess is that you didn't listen to all the good advice we gave you the last time and this is what you get. It has to take a 54-years old MM to deny you sex before you realize how dumb your actions are? Geez, a 54-years old man saying no to sex with a 24-years young lady. What is this world coming to. How "low" can you go..... I wouldn't flatter myself with the reasons why he wouldn't do it with you. It just shows you how weird and controlling he is.....'cause if he really wanted to, even a chicken wouldn't say no to free feed.
I hope you learned something from this. Your letting your fantasy with this (closer to 60 than 30) Old(der) man rule your good senses. I hope you didn't completely blow your reputation and hard (school) work by letting this joker play you like that. Realized by now that he probably have ZERO respect for you. I just hope he's not a "tattle tale". It will be hard work now to redeem yourself but it can be done. I would totally stay away from this "clown" though. Change classes or school if I have to.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson
Are you kidding? Listen dolly, i am nearly as 'old' as this old guy and you , old enough to be my daughter.
This oldie is no good.He is absolutely on power trip! Can you really not see?? He is extremely manipulative.He will have you done and then disappear.What will you do? He is a psycho,no doubt.A 54 year oldie wanting a 24 year to leave her H for him? Who knows how many has he done before?At 54,he is rotten and wants to feel ripe again.Sick.
Go complete NC and read all the replies here again.
Set yourself free from him his clutches.Seriously.Any man, IMHO, who chases a woman more than 10 years younger is really sick.I am not generalizing and not even wanting to debate on this age issue .Thats MY HO.
Thank you so much to all of you for your replies and for being objective, not judgmental as they were
When I was 30 I started an affair with a married 54 year old professor. That was many years ago, he has since passed away and I have since divorced after being caught in a second affair.
A couple of aspects of my story are different than yours, I was not his student and we were long distance. But, he did leave his wife and I never did leave my H. The relationship did not end up well. He too tried to put lots of conditions on me and he ended up being very controlling even eventually turning into an almost stalker-like persona. Made me feel very good that we were long distance.
Sometimes age differences work. But in this case, as in mine, the warning signs are there. I think you might want to heed them before it is too late.
If you do choose to go down this road, which you very well might, because my guess on his "indecisiveness" now is that it is just for show to see how far you will go, then just be careful.
He sounds creepy to me. Not because of the age difference, because of course he wants to have sex with you. What 54 year old doesn't want to sleep with a younger woman? No, he sounds creepy to me because of his game playing and demands.
I know you have a professor fantasy. I'm not really sure why, to be honest. He's just a man. So what if he's your professor? But it's your fantasy, not mine. If you feel you absolutely must fulfill it, I'd maybe look around for somebody else. Someone who isn't such a control freak, which I have no doubt he is. Or maybe you could just have your husband don a tweed jacket, some glasses and stick a pipe in his mouth and pretend to be a professor. That way you're not jeopardizing your marriage for something that I am absolutely positive will not end up being as great as you may think it will.
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