30 yrs older than me, now he refused

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Registered: 01-20-2009
30 yrs older than me, now he refused
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Tue, 01-20-2009 - 7:20pm
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Registered: 02-09-2008
Thu, 01-22-2009 - 7:11pm

Slightly different perspective, and I probably already told you this when you posted before. He is your professor, he already has enough of your life in his hands and control. You are young, sexy and willing and he likes to play with the power of that.

"That I have to be willing to leave my husband if he wants, if I woud live with him, that I have to have sex on his terms not mine"

That is crazy talk. Who on earth would ask someone to leave their spouse for them, before they're even in any kind of R? He's getting off on a power trip at your expense. Run girl, run far and run fast. May/December relationships are hard enough without this kind of powerplay. I speak from experience - I was 24 when I M my 41 yo H.

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Registered: 10-03-2007
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 4:54am

I guess i have replied to you earlier as well,under the different screen name of yours.
This 54 year old guy considers himself a prize,why?? Its you who is the prize,not him.What does he mean by ' live with him later'? will he marry you? No,dear.

I would say be very cautious with this man.You have refused to leave your H for him,now leave this A.he wont let you go off easily thou.you are feeding his ego and he is not going to like it when you RUUUUN from him.Be careful.

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Registered: 12-06-2007
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:08am

This man is PSYCHOTIC.

 

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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 2:44pm
LOL. Lifetime movie. So right!
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Registered: 08-19-2008
Sat, 01-24-2009 - 12:34am
More like the "Long Island Lolita" movie. I wouldn't be surprised if I see it in the news someday that this young 24-years old student shot her 54-years old professor's wife because he wouldn't have sex with her. Hmmmm, who's the psycho here.....


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Sat, 01-24-2009 - 3:03pm
I doubted the veracity of the OP the last time she posted this tale and I doubt it again.

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Registered: 01-16-2009
Sun, 01-25-2009 - 8:17am
I'm w/ obxbell on this one, that guy is crazy, demented even. If you can't see that, then somethings wrong w/ you. Why would you even want put yourself in a position like that w/ somebody that has the air of a narcissist? Seriously, get away from him quick!
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Registered: 04-17-2006
Sun, 01-25-2009 - 1:49pm
LOL..well you know the saying "youth is wasted".....but I wouldn't call OP psycho..just naive and taken in by the attention of an older, "sophisticated" man.....I can't relate, when i was in college I thought anyone over the age of 30 was "skeevy" and my biggest problem was getting to class on time.
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Registered: 08-19-2008
Sun, 01-25-2009 - 2:23pm
I used to have nightmares that I walked into class late (wearing just my undies) and everyone staring at me. It still gives me the "heevie-jeevies". But yeah! Eeewww, totally "skeevy". BTW, what is a skeevy?


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Mon, 01-26-2009 - 2:18am

sorry had to chime in, reading this just give me the giggles. No offence but your posts are so often straight to the point, a little stern maybe, very serious in response (and rightly so) that this one totally threw me, it reminded me of when i was 4 and first saw my teacher out of school with her boyfriend and i thought 'oh my god she is human'.


thanks for the laugh, and i hope i havnt offended


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