3some

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Registered: 12-04-2003
3some
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Mon, 05-24-2004 - 11:39pm
So over the weekend my dh & i are hanging out w/ my mm & his w(my best friend). We drink a little too much play strip cards and end up in bed together. I had sex w/ my dh while my best friend was sorta involved and my mm goes running out. I go after him and we have sex. Later in the night he comes back to me(we just decided to stay the night because the kids were sleeping)and we have sex again when his wife comes in and joins in! Oh my God I'm so freaked out. I knew it was a fanatsy of his but he says he just wanted it in the open so his stress level will go down. Welve been having the affair for a year and have fallen in love. We don't see having a future with just the two of us due to the dynamics of the thing. Although we oeft them togtehr apparently our spouses just fooled around and didn't have sex and we didn't tell my dh how the rest of the night went. So my stress level goes up keeping another secret and wondering if my mm still wants me (so badly he'd do anything like a 3some to be w/ me)or only used me cause he knew i couldn't tell him no.
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Registered: 05-19-2004
In reply to: playfulj
Mon, 05-24-2004 - 11:52pm
Wow, sounds like every man's fantasy. His wife and mistress! If you can handle it- good for you. If not I would let him know right now, and not participate in that again. Otherwise it will happen again.

I had a something happen like that with my DH a long time ago. I set it up with my best friend- bi-curious time of my life. He was the one that got freaked out and let me know. I respected him and we've never done it again.

Be open and honest about how you feel. If he can't handle it- then it's his problem. You don't need that extra stres! Especially watching your MM and his W! Hats off to you.

Good Luck! Jen