5 days NC started today

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Registered: 06-13-2006
5 days NC started today
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Wed, 12-24-2008 - 1:50am

Ok so we (AP & I)

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 1:38pm
Today is the last chance for me and AP to have any contact until NEXT Thursday as he is going out of town with his girlfriend and his family. And I only get to see him once or twice a month. So I feel ya. We have never gone even one day NC...so we'll see how this goes.
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Registered: 06-13-2006
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 3:10pm

SD,


Hi there and Merry Christmas. I guess I should not complain about seeing AP: we see each other a minimum of once a week, and talk every single day minus Sat/Sun and of course at times like right now.


Hugs to you, and if you want/need to talk; you can IM me thru my profile I believe.


Hang in there.

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Wed, 12-24-2008 - 3:21pm

Thanks for the support. I think there's a lot of us on here that will be NC with APs over the next few days. My AP and I haven't gone a single day NC since we started this A 4 months ago. And now it will be a week.

Good luck with your NC and I'll be looking to these boards to help me through mine. ;-)

Merry Christmas.
Here if you need me,
SD

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Registered: 10-20-2008
Sat, 12-27-2008 - 8:52pm

We got to talk for about 30 minutes on Christmas Eve and I was expecting to not have any contact with AP til NYE. I did get a Merry Christmas text that was very benign....could have even been a mass text to everyone in his phone. I assume it was in case the girlfriend checked the phone. And I am in AP's phone under a guy's name.

So yesterday was the first day in 3 months that there was absolutely NC. And it looks like today is day 2. In my head I knew I wouldn't hear from him at all while he's away, but I guess some secret part of me hoped he'd sneak a text here and there.

So.....how do you get through this?? How do I calm my mind from going absolutely crazy? Wondering if he's even thinking about me??

Oh man....there's still 4 or 5 more days of this.......