Today is the last chance for me and AP to have any contact until NEXT Thursday as he is going out of town with his girlfriend and his family. And I only get to see him once or twice a month. So I feel ya. We have never gone even one day NC...so we'll see how this goes.
Hi there and Merry Christmas. I guess I should not complain about seeing AP: we see each other a minimum of once a week, and talk every single day minus Sat/Sun and of course at times like right now.
Hugs to you, and if you want/need to talk; you can IM me thru my profile I believe.
Thanks for the support. I think there's a lot of us on here that will be NC with APs over the next few days. My AP and I haven't gone a single day NC since we started this A 4 months ago. And now it will be a week.
Good luck with your NC and I'll be looking to these boards to help me through mine. ;-)
We got to talk for about 30 minutes on Christmas Eve and I was expecting to not have any contact with AP til NYE. I did get a Merry Christmas text that was very benign....could have even been a mass text to everyone in his phone. I assume it was in case the girlfriend checked the phone. And I am in AP's phone under a guy's name.
So yesterday was the first day in 3 months that there was absolutely NC. And it looks like today is day 2. In my head I knew I wouldn't hear from him at all while he's away, but I guess some secret part of me hoped he'd sneak a text here and there.
So.....how do you get through this?? How do I calm my mind from going absolutely crazy? Wondering if he's even thinking about me??
Oh man....there's still 4 or 5 more days of this.......
SD,
Hi there and Merry Christmas. I guess I should not complain about seeing AP: we see each other a minimum of once a week, and talk every single day minus Sat/Sun and of course at times like right now.
Hugs to you, and if you want/need to talk; you can IM me thru my profile I believe.
Hang in there.
Thanks for the support. I think there's a lot of us on here that will be NC with APs over the next few days. My AP and I haven't gone a single day NC since we started this A 4 months ago. And now it will be a week.
Good luck with your NC and I'll be looking to these boards to help me through mine. ;-)
Merry Christmas.
Here if you need me,
SD
We got to talk for about 30 minutes on Christmas Eve and I was expecting to not have any contact with AP til NYE. I did get a Merry Christmas text that was very benign....could have even been a mass text to everyone in his phone. I assume it was in case the girlfriend checked the phone. And I am in AP's phone under a guy's name.
So yesterday was the first day in 3 months that there was absolutely NC. And it looks like today is day 2. In my head I knew I wouldn't hear from him at all while he's away, but I guess some secret part of me hoped he'd sneak a text here and there.
So.....how do you get through this?? How do I calm my mind from going absolutely crazy? Wondering if he's even thinking about me??
Oh man....there's still 4 or 5 more days of this.......