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7 calls so far today....
| Sat, 02-28-2009 - 6:49pm |
OMG....well, yesterday at work, AP and I had a talk in the morning. He told me that he had paid or was going to pay another month lease on his place and I asked him why if he was back living with her and he said because he wasn't sure about things. I asked where things stood with her, were they "working" on their marriage and he said no, she knew how he felt and wants him to get his head straightened out. He then told me he wasn't the one that sent me that text message last week about loving his wife more, he hugged me, kissed me...before he left at the end of the day I told him to have a good weekend and he said he would be texting me because "that's all we have"...he texted me last night and said something about "yeah, that went well, should've stayed in the bar, I can't get you out of my heart and head"...then told me he loved me and would text me in the morning. He had to work this morning and would be able to text freely...I sent him one first saying "good morning, thinking of you" and he responded about "thinking of you and all the things" and that was it...well, he told me Wednesday the reason he went back was because "someone" told him that they saw me and my husband out somewhere holding hands and looking all in love, which is a lie, and he began to think I was just trying to break up his marriage for revenge and making him look like a fool...I was like, whatever...that is a lie, you know it's a lie and I've never done anything to make you not trust ME....so, his last text today was that he was thinking of all that and didn't want to be made a fool of ( what a joke) and we needed to talk....K, whatever, here's the other odd thing...I've been receiving calls from "UNAVAILABLE" all day...7 so far, and they never leave a message so I suspect that he must've talked to her last night, just from what he said in his text about "that not going well" ( they were supposed to go out last night to celebrate her and some other relatives birthday) and now she's trying to call me..i don't know who else it would be. I don't feel like talking to her...I've done it before and she doesn't listen to anything I tell her and accuses me of lying about everything....I just wish I knew what he tells her..if he lies and tells her that I won't leave him alone ( he's done that before according to what she told me one time) or if he told her honestly how he felt and now she's pissed....gawd...I know, I brought it on myself by not keeping my mouth shut the other day...but I couldn't help it, damnit, I was tired of him acting like I had no feelings and I was just a piece of crap to kick to the curb with no explanation. Thanks for listening to me, ladies.

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I would suspect he probably actually told her. You can call the phone company and report
harrassing phone calls and have them traced.
I don't know what he would've told her. She knew that he's been talking to me and sitting with me...he says she knows that's the reason he moved out 3 weeks ago ( moved back a week ago) so I don't know if he told her a "little more" of the truth than what he had or what.
We talked Thursday and Friday for the first time since he went back about a week and half ago, so I don't know if she found out about that ( he mentioned that he was told to stay away from me) and he's trying to cover his ass by saying he did nothing wrong..ya know, trying to make it sound like I'm chasing his poor defenseless ass ( ha)...all I know is that his texts friday night mentioned how "something" went real well ( sarcastically) and he should've stayed the bar and he could not get me out of his head and heart...told me he loved me and would text me in the morning....I don't know if he had some kind of talk with her or if was busted texting me because his whole tune had changed this morning....
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I agree,its too much drama! I suspect that even IF your AP( ex?) gets a D,a day wont pass without all the drama.Life is already so complicated!
(( hugs ))
Thanks, tyerzize....how long did your affair last? Was it on again off again a lot? Who ended things? Who initiated things? How often did you see each other?
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
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