8 years later, is it really over?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2008
8 years later, is it really over?
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Mon, 01-26-2009 - 10:01pm

Hi all,


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-29-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 9:57am

Hey darlin' just throwing some good vibes your way.

I'm sure he's hurting, thinking of you as much as you're thinking of him. I'm sure it's his guilt that's keeping him from you - he knows you know and he doesn't know what to say, so he's hiding. The days are slipping, and he's feeling bad about each one that does, now it's been 40 days, how can I explain that TOO?

If I've learned anything from these boards, it's that you'll hear from him eventually. The question is how you want to handle it when you hear from him in a week, 3 months, or after the baby is born? What then?

I hope you do whatever makes you happy until then, and when it happens. BIG HUGS!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 11:17am
i'm really sorry. i don't have much to say in the way of advice. i think it may be pride on your part and his part that has stopped the both of you from communicating. i would say if you want to speak to him again, send him a friendly email, if you don;t want to go that route, hopefully he will sometime in the future send you one. good luck in what ever happens. i've been there, but was weak and always caved.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2008
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 8:09pm
Thank You!