Actions versus words
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Actions versus words
| Mon, 06-21-2010 - 1:30pm |
Hi. I am new to this forum and am happy to have found it! I have a question about what people say about the way to tell your guy is in love with you or is falling for you. I am married and he is single. Been seeing each other a while now. I have read that a man will look you in the eye, stare at you when you're not looking, want to see you on weekends, etc. Is this true and what are some of the other signs he has feelings for me? I am pretty sure he is into me but don't want to ask because I have also read how men don't like to talk about feelings. I eventually will, though.

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**Chuckle** this is an age-old question EVERYONE wants the answer to :)
stargazer,
Everyone has thier own interpretation of how to know he is in love with you....I can say in my experience, having had a H who could care less if I was around or not and an A who everyone assumes is
anotherseyes
I think that, in general, men do have a much more difficult time defining their feelings and then expressing them.
These are my AP's "words": I care about you a great deal, I don't want to lose you, I can't allow myself to fall in love with you.
Some of his "actions":
anotherseyes
I think it sounds like he's at least very fond of you.
anotherseyes
Trust me, we have amazing chemistry, too.
anotherseyes
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