Actions versus words

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Actions versus words
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Mon, 06-21-2010 - 1:30pm
Hi. I am new to this forum and am happy to have found it! I have a question about what people say about the way to tell your guy is in love with you or is falling for you. I am married and he is single. Been seeing each other a while now. I have read that a man will look you in the eye, stare at you when you're not looking, want to see you on weekends, etc. Is this true and what are some of the other signs he has feelings for me? I am pretty sure he is into me but don't want to ask because I have also read how men don't like to talk about feelings. I eventually will, though.

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Tue, 06-22-2010 - 8:54pm
Sounds like you two are happy together. I hope to be as happy. I do care for him immensely. I enjoy every minute together. Its like we have known each other forever.
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Registered: 06-21-2010
Wed, 06-23-2010 - 9:25am
It IS very hard sometimes, though. I wish I didn't think about him so much. You all know how that is, though :)
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Registered: 06-21-2010
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 1:48am
That makes a lot of sense. I am confused by my AP as well. He does treat me well and with respect. He cares about what I have to say and doesn't judge me. I am lucky, I guess. I should just enjoy him and stop worrying, huh? Thanks for listening, and I WILL let you all know what happens if and when I tell him how I feel.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 7:15am
I'm weighing in late, but I definitely go with actions versus words. If the actions show love and care, then that's what it is. If the words say "I love you" a hundred times a day, but there's no showing of love or care - I wouldn't believe the words. When a guy won't say "I love you" but it's obvious by his actions, I sometimes wonder if he knows himself that he loves you. Guys can fool themselves about that, but sooner or later they will realize it themselves, whether they let you in on it or not.

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Registered: 06-01-2010
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 9:01am

Another one late to weigh in - sorry!

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Registered: 06-21-2010
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 1:10pm
Ha ha. I think I will start a post about butt smacking. It must be another way they show affection. Come to think of it, I have done it to guys I care about, as well. Like a love smack, of sorts. So funny. I know he cares a lot for me, as of last night. I know without a doubt now. It was his actions, not his words.
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Registered: 06-21-2010
Thu, 06-24-2010 - 11:05pm
Mine listens to me, as well. Last night was the first time he ever showed me affection, outright. I am thankful to no longer be "wondering" how he feels.

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