Acts of love

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Registered: 04-15-2011
Acts of love
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Mon, 03-19-2012 - 1:29pm

We all have our bad moments with our AP's and vent over this board . In the process we forget how we love them and how they love us back. Lets share some of those things which makes us accept their not so good attitudes ,lol

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 11:36am
Inlovewith, there are no takers for your post , lol !

Not being mean but I figure most women here are unhappy in their affairs !
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Registered: 09-29-2004
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:28pm
Well there are lots of little acts of love:
The way he looks at me
The way he is concerned about me taking care of myself
The gifts for no reason, salon certificates, new gloves because my hands are cold, dress rain coat ( he knew I didn't have one and we were having.lots of rainy weather), good quality sunglasses as I only by myself the cheap ones.
The look in his eyes that say it much.more than words
The pain he suffers and expresses( as well as I ) not being able to be together for real
The way he makes me laugh
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Registered: 03-30-2010
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:42pm

The kiss on the forehead.
The way he sees through me.
The way he hugs me, never wanting to let go.
His interest in my children & their well-being.
The way he speaks to me & others ( never uses profanity).
Very thoughtful & kind hearted.

I can still go on....

 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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Registered: 09-12-2005
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:51pm
heissick wrote:
Inlovewith, there are no takers for your post , lol !

Not being mean but I figure most women here are unhappy in their affairs !

Being happy or unhappy in an affair has nothing to do with receiving acts of love.

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Registered: 04-15-2011
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:54pm

@ heissick , No, I dont think you were being mean . Its nature of the affairs that we are all in. Some days are good and some are bad . I started this thread to give each of us a reminder why wwe hold onto our A's and AP's .

@rayne , you can go on ! Make your list and revisit it often to see if you can still check all the boxes !

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Registered: 04-15-2011
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:56pm
Sireanita , lets not go off track . I dont take that post as offensive at all.
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Registered: 09-12-2005
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 12:57pm

Well, my R is too new, but here goes:

-Going out of his way to help me, whether it was to help fixing my computer, delivering a piece of furniture or fixing something in my appartment.

-Lots of physical affection (we are both very physical).

-Taking interest in my son and being there for me when he was sick.

-Encouraging me with my thesis writing (I find it terribly boring).

-Taking time to listen to my feelings no matter how hard it is.

-He's on vacation now, with his family and daughter that he loves and haven't seen in 8 months. His schedule is busy with parties, family visits and getting his family ready to leave their country. Yet he finds time to connect to the internet (expensive) to communicate with me every day. We even had an email argument last week and he took his time to read my concerns and made changes so I can feel better.

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Registered: 10-22-2003
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 1:15pm

-The way he gives me the long glances

-The beautiful things he says

-His warm hugs

Can't wait to see him at the end of the day!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-31-2011
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 1:41pm
Great post!
I had this conversation recently with him. It's the little things a lot of the time
- how he looks at me. When we're alone there is real meaning behind the way he looks at me. He doesn't need to say anything I know what he's thinking.
- the way he kisses my forehead
- the way he brushes my hair off my face
- the way we laugh together. I have never laughed so much about the most random subjects. We're on the same page humour wise.
- the way he stares deep into my eyes.
- the way he makes me feel when i'm with him.

I'm seeing him tonight, we're going out for drinks...can't wait :-)
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Registered: 04-15-2011
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 2:29pm
Wow ! everyone has atleast one thing common

The way he looks at me !!

Gosh! these guys must have something special about that look which makes us go , well , mmmm, w_e_t ;)

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