Right now I have 2 AP plus another sort of casual one that I date when he's in town every couple of months. None of them 'know' about the others, not that I go out of my way to hide it, I don't. They're all M and we're all cheating, so what's the difference? Kind of strikes me ironic if an AP got po'd because I'm seeing someone else... after all he sleeps with his W most nites and I'm with my H most nights.
All AP's know that there's "others", some I just talk more freely about with them.
I had my first PA in June of last year with an old friend... That AP and I have been together at least once a month, every month since September... Crazy, but as long as I am in an unhappy marriage/relationship, I will never tell him No.
No, you're most certainly not alone! I've been involved in a few for the past 4 years. The reasons are just like everyone else has said, and I've felt them all at different times, anger, boredom, lonely, revenge, indulging myself, spoiled, neglected at home, out of touch, fear of aging, confusion. Like someone else has also said, we probably keep doing it because we don't figure out why we do it to begin with.
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Right now I have 2 AP plus another sort of casual one that I date when he's in town every couple of months. None of them 'know' about the others, not that I go out of my way to hide it, I don't. They're all M and we're all cheating, so what's the difference? Kind of strikes me ironic if an AP got po'd because I'm seeing someone else... after all he sleeps with his W most nites and I'm with my H most nights.
-jana
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Edited 6/20/2009 12:59 am ET by the_other_me
I currently have between 2-4 AP's, plus my H.
All AP's know that there's "others", some I just talk more freely about with them.
I had my first PA in June of last year with an old friend... That AP and I have been together at least once a month, every month since September... Crazy, but as long as I am in an unhappy marriage/relationship, I will never tell him No.
Katie--
Mama to Alyse (5-12-05) and soon-to-be baby (e.d.d. 10-25-10)
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