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advice I should have listened to...
| Sat, 04-17-2004 - 9:24am |
I should have listened to the girl before I got married that told me I was marrying a selfish ice queen.
I should have listened to a friend last spring who told me, "Move out, honey. Don't get into another relationship until you're done being married. Get some space."
I should have listened to my OW who told me "if you don't take action to move out soon, I think something is breaking between us you might not be able to fix."

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Edited 4/25/2004 8:38 am ET ET by julietsfate
Oh sweety, what's going on?
Tell us. Maybe we can help. We're here for you.
You have helped me so much, I want to help you.
Don't worry - things will be okay.
Red
GB2
What's the matter, honey? Your pain is radiating in waves off my screen. How can we help?
We're all here for you. Let us know....please.
Cazrida
((hugs))
Circe
Hugs,
trouble
I know we have not posted to each other on here, I do read your posts, they are very well written and make alot of sense, so if you ever need to talk let me know, we are all here for you
HUGS
SB
Seeburg
yes, I was really frustrated and kinda lost at 7:30am Saturday when I posted, but mostly I was just thinking how I hadn't listened to people giving me good advice or warnings.
OW and I had kind of an unpleasant round Friday overnight around 2am... we'd never really been like that, and while we made up we were both a little frayed. So I left early to run errands, and one of those took me to work where I decided to post. I didn't really mean to sound so doom and gloom, it just hit me really hard that if I'd just followed those three pieces of advice my life would be so much easier... but of course, easier doesn't mean better.
Strange... it's really like everyone's love and energy changed the whole day. I wondered how it all turned around, maybe you all had something to do with it... "power of prayer" or equivalent... I do want to share my Saturday story because it was really simple but affirming, and now I'm starting to feel like maybe so much positivity had some effect on it.
love you all, and thanks so much. I really feel like I have friends here. I have kind of an amazing story about the rest of the day to share later...
rain
Edited 4/18/2004 11:56 am ET ET by raining_confusion
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