Advice Needed Please

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Registered: 02-27-2009
Advice Needed Please
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Fri, 03-06-2009 - 1:28pm

Hi,


I've been reading this board for a few weeks now and cannot tell you how much I appreciate and enjoy reading everyone's stories.

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Fri, 03-06-2009 - 1:45pm

you are a serial cheater..you may be one that needs to leave your marriage...seriously..you just keep cheating on your hubby with numberous men....think about that please...okay....leave ole youngin' alone and let him live..and i don't guess from reading your post that all of this flirting is one sided....


in my opinion you need to spend time alone to assess what it is you want out of life and who you are....to me to keep putting yourself in the same situation with different men is just a bunch of mess when you have a hubby at home...i guess maybe because i don't understand the married side of things....i'm not being mean or judging because i too am involved in an A, partially, sort of..it's over but not really over til the fat lady sings type of thing..but taking the right side of the blindfold off i can see more clearly about what is going on with me in loving XAP and what drew me to him and even after all the hooplah and mess we go through what keeps me loving him althought we're not together...in being only partially blind to things i'm seeing that you my dear need some serious time to self...again leave ole youngin' alone and let him live...

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

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Registered: 02-27-2009
Fri, 03-06-2009 - 3:35pm

Thanks for your reply tygerzize!

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Registered: 10-03-2008
Fri, 03-06-2009 - 3:59pm

well it's only my opinion...just putting my thoughts online...question is to why repeat it with different folks...? maybe the same reason i repeated it with the same person..but i know why i did that..because i love him and am madly in love with him....he and i aren't together any longer and i do not desire to be involved with a married man ever again...i do not want any thrill from that if you can get any thrill from it...get me....that's why it seemed i was harsh...i really wasn't trying to be and apologize if it came off that way....i seriously do....just don't think that you having affairs was because you loved aps as much as it was to obtain what you weren't getting at home...and in that case i say let hubby find someone who does desire him...why is it so hard to get out, especially if you are not satisfied at home?

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss

"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss