ADVICE OR THOUGHTS PLEASE???

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-24-2004
ADVICE OR THOUGHTS PLEASE???
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Tue, 01-27-2004 - 12:44am
I am new in here and really could use some advice. Although I am not married, I have been in a monogomous relationship for the past 5 years and the guyfriend I am referring to has been with his girl for 3 years. No children are involved.

Anyways-I've been having an "A" for the past few months and I am extremely confused right now! To give you a lil background info-guyfiend always contacts me---I don't call him for he is afraid his other half might be there. We meet at my house when his other half is at work and he has a time limit to when she gets done work. I don't know...I have fallen extremely hard for this guy! I am ready to end it with my relationship to be with him but I know that is not going to happen... I have a STRONG feeling that my feelings for guyfriend are not reciprocated.

Any advice or thoughts that can help me figure all this out! I am so messed up right now!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 01-27-2004 - 1:38am
Hey

Ask him how he feels in plain terms that leave no wiggle room.

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