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Advice please
| Thu, 05-28-2009 - 10:15pm |
I have posted here before, I have been having a cyber affair with a long time friend for the past several months.
But I need some advice, I have met someone online, he is married and and is actively seeking to meet someone.

Why set the bar so low as to just accept being just an AP. Why not aim high and start a clean fresh honest R with someone available whom you can be proud to shout out to the world in a dignified R.
If you're just wanting to get laid, I'm sure there are better ways to accomplished that, than worrying afterward if you've caught something horrible from someone not clean. Besides, starting an R base on deceiving other people (his W and/or children) usually doesn't result in happily ever after. Most likely you'll end up "gung-hu" over the guy but he's not available to make an honest woman out of you and you'll most likely end up getting used and played with damaged self esteem and hurt.
If you're single learn to be happy with you just they way you are. No need to go chasing after some fantasy to make you whole. Love most of the time happens when you're not looking.
"People spend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idle dreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill the emptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed to search was within."
- Ramona L. Anderson