Advice for when he goes silent
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Advice for when he goes silent
| Tue, 07-20-2010 - 7:03pm |
It has happens with out warning. I'm out of my affair, but I see your pain. Its my AP. Or former. He went silent 2 months ago. Never told me he dropped me. For 2 weeks didn't know whaty was going on. All was fine. I like to offer some advice. I've been through the anger, rage , depression. Now its why. Don't chase, or call, move on. I sent him in 2 months one hand written letter, one card, e emails. One telling him to go to he!! If he had enough respect to tell me from the day he dropped me he wanted to, I wouldve let him, and never looked back. This is beyond anything that is painful. I've read men that do this do come back. He's hurt me so bad, I don't think I could take him back. I jhave anxiety and panic attacks in the middle of the night. I cryu myself to sleep. I started dating again. Last night he spent the night. I rolled and my side silently crying for my former AP. Sick isn't it. My new guy wants to bring me all over, take me to the ocean on Friday. I'm trying to be happy, I'm having such a hard time. I'm trying to let go. For me its been 2 months. You need time to grieve. Its like mourning a death. Hugs to you.
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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
Proud to be a
You've
Oh Moon ....I have no idea what to say to you but I am sending you {{{{Hugs}}}}.
We all know this could be us.
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You can post here whenever you like Moon :-) and of course it's hard to handle.
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
"be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"---Dr. Seuss
I don't know why APs decide to go silent.
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