Advise~someone just beginning this journ

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Advise~someone just beginning this journ
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Thu, 03-27-2003 - 11:35am
I was wondering if anyone had advise for someone just beginning this journey or rollercoaster. I am M and the OM is M, too. Nothing hot and heavy going on, yesterday was 1st kiss. I'm still smiling.

Anyone have advise on expectations, etc. ?

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 1:02pm
Expectations are what you and he need to discuss...are you going to be friends w/benefits..is this a sexual EMA only? Or are you looking for a romantic situation..one that could possibly have a future together....

You also need to be ready to risk your M..and your family to be in this relationship..and although you may start out on one level...your EMA may trick you and take you somewhere completely different than expected....be careful of your emotions...and always be smart..cover your tracks if you decide to go any further...

And know we will be here to help in anyway we can...thanks

molly

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-27-2003 - 2:15pm
you are going to have up and downs. you will also have the guilts and he will to. spend some time readingthe posts here nd yo will see what comes with the territory. that is the best advice i can give.