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| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 3:30am |
I have really tried here --- I post I reply and I feel in a tasteful manner
A post having nothing to do with EMA's but the luck of someone who now gets
her MM in her life on a daily basis gets 14 responses - while mine gets one....
I am done here -
Why do you have to be considered a Non-threat or actually have a "real" story to get
any type of support or encouragement or even a response ???
- it seems pretty clear there is what you call a clique -
have you ever started a new job ???
moved to a new neighborhood ??
I am not asking for much not even a bump to the top - but responses help ---
K

I feel that you're being a little unfair. I've been following your posts and hoping for an update. I would have gladly posted a reply but I wasn't able to be on the boards much yesterday and just saw your post today. I think you're feeling very emotional right now and understandably want and need support. Just don't jump to conclusions about why people do/do not immediately respond to a post.
Having said that, I can only imagine what you're going through right now. I thought my A was over this weekend and I can tell you that I would have been completely devastated. I'm proud that you're being strong because I don't know how strong I'd be in the same situation. Hang in there! He has broken your trust as well as your heart and he now has to work to regain both.
Take care of yourself and please continue to post. We're all just a breath away from being in a situation similar to yours.
((((((Kikki))))))
Jess
I am presuming you are talking about my post. Hell yes honey, people here like me and have known me for sometime. Plus my post must have been upbeat and positive that they all felt the need to respond. However, it does take a long time to those many responses over the course of three to four days. Unless its Rain/Omaha arguing with PG! *wink*
Juliet
I am sorry you feel that way. I have also read your posts. I just don't always get a chance to respond..not just to you to anyone! I have been a member here for over a year and a half and many of the names have changed but the initial purpose for being here is all the same. I know this is a hardtime.Don't leave. This board can truly offer you supposrt! Many of us have felt like you. Hang in there and keep posting!!
:)
Circe
I have found the same thing too from time to time...I'm not sure why...
But, I always read your posts. You have a unique attitude that I think alot of people can learn from. Also, you seem very strong. I think maybe that can be a little intimidating to the other women who struggle more? But still, it's no excuse...
Re the post I think you're referring to, about not going to meet him, I read that carefully, and at the end of it, I just felt that I had nothing constructive to say. I don't know what I'd do in that situation, to be honest. What you're doing seems like the right thing. I just don't know...I think it's a time-will-tell situation. I felt like I HAD no advice that would be better than what you already figured out for yourself. But that's no excuse for not responding just to say, we're listening, we hope it turns out ok.
So, we're listening, Kikki! Give us a chance...
barefoot
stay around, please. we'll do better, i promise!!
life
I am more of a lurker than a poster .....
But I am sorry you feel this way ....
I will be more than happy to CLICK with you or anyone else for that matter I will try to be a more active poster but I am herre if you wanna post ... gush , rant something dont think your alone cause your not!!!!!
MY GOOD TIME