affair with a toyboy

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Registered: 05-20-2003
affair with a toyboy
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Fri, 04-02-2004 - 3:51pm
hi my name is mary and i am 40 years old and recently i have been secretly having an affair with my son's 21 year old friend mark.

recently at a party mark kissed me passionately, and then i ran off. mark had come over to fix my computer, it made me feel a little uneasy.

after he fixed the computer we had a chat. during the chat he said he was in love with me and then he kissed me, and i couldn't resist and one thing led to another and we ended up in bed.

since then we have been meeting up and seeing each other.

i seem to enjoy the danger and exictment of this affair and this affair makes me feel bored with my husband.

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Registered: 03-04-2004
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 4:01pm
woo-hoo... Mary, you wild thing.

Hate to be the wet blanket... but if it's the A that's making you feel bored with your H and you didn't feel bored before... you might just be thrillin' on the youngun'.

It's a good buzz, but could be a hard crash. Not judging at all, just saying your maturity level and his might be different. A little sex might get you by or might make you want more and ruin what seems to have been a good marriage.

And if young gun said he's in love... watch out. Impulsive young men will do things those of us ten years their senior realize are shooting offensives... like telling.

good luck

rain

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Registered: 04-01-2004
Fri, 04-02-2004 - 4:48pm
I agree with Rain and he put it way more eloquently than I would have --

Kikki

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Registered: 05-20-2003
Sat, 04-03-2004 - 8:43am
during this affair i have become more attracted to mark and i have become less attrated to my husband.

with this affair i want to be free and it makes me feel that my marriage is all but over.