affair w/hot professor!

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Registered: 12-02-2008
affair w/hot professor!
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Tue, 12-02-2008 - 3:09pm
Okay, so like, I created this account just for the purpose of telling someone-- anyone-- about this affair in which I am about to engage (NOBODY knows... secrecy is my only outlet).

I am 24, my husband is 25, and my professor is about 54 and married... but the dude's still got it going on!

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Registered: 01-12-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 3:44pm

"What should I do? My professor made me see that my husband is most likely doing things without telling me, and that

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Registered: 09-28-2006
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 3:59pm

Well, he sounds like

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Registered: 05-14-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 4:54pm
It is ok to be in lust. But here I would be very careful. You have already stepped over the line. He had a 3 hour conversation trying to convinvce you to have an affair. And the line about your husband bothers me. How does he know that??? It sounds to me like he is trying to take advantage of you. I would not go forward with this unles you are prepared for getting caught. As we say around here generally it is not a matter of if but when. Regardless of your decision we are here to help.







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Registered: 10-24-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 5:12pm

Ok Sugar, I know you're young, but can't you see what is painfully obvious to the rest of us? That man is just smelling your a**, because he wants some. Based on just what you have said about him, he is manipulating you by "showing" you just how terrible your marriage is. Good thing he told you, because prior to talking to him, it sounds like you didn't know.

Leave that guy alone, he seems toxic to me. He may be polite after it's over because he doesn't want to lose his job, or his W, but trust me you are just the flavor of the week. If you think he's that hot, don't you think other students before you have noticed the same? Don't risk your marriage for this creep. Go buy a sexy nightie, and go home and molest your H. Seriously warning bells are going off, you'll here them if you just listen.

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Registered: 11-18-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 5:20pm

Honey -- married people DON'T lie all the time.

Carrrrrried...away2
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Registered: 01-12-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 6:53pm

"Seriously warning bells are going off, you'll here them if you just listen."


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Registered: 10-24-2008
Tue, 12-02-2008 - 6:59pm
Thank you emily!