Affairs & Children - Friday Question

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Registered: 04-16-2004
Affairs & Children - Friday Question
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Fri, 05-14-2004 - 9:45am
Yes...it took me until Friday morning to come up with a question, so here goes it....

cl-noregretsyet (co-cl of MAS board)
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Registered: 05-24-2003
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 2:34am
That is why I do expect the question to come up. My SO/OM is a friend and coworker of mine that my children have met...both before and since the A started. They know that pretty much everything in this apartment, he has provided. He leaves donuts and such for them on the days I have custody. So, once the D is final, I expect that they will have some questions about this time period when he and I are more open about our relationship.

Lucky

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Registered: 05-13-2004
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 6:55am
At this point in time I would say no I definitly wouldn't tell my kids. They are both under 4 years old and I know that they can't fully understand at this point in time. And if I can be completely honest without getting judged, I wouldn't tell them because I am ashamed of what I am doing because I know morally it is wrong. I have to say though when they are older and I am no longer in this situation, my answer might be different. Then again who knows, kids are bright and alot of times they know more than we give them credit for. Just my honest answer, hope it doesn't offend anyone.
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Registered: 06-24-2003
Sun, 05-16-2004 - 8:45pm

If I'm still with DH... no such confession will be forthcoming! however... if things change... then I will probably be totally honest with them if they were to ask.

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