after 3 years, but can it work.
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after 3 years, but can it work.
| Fri, 10-30-2009 - 9:45am |
my X-AP wants to give us a trail period together sometime in the next 2 months before he moves 14 hours away to see if we can make a real relationship work.

Dear Moon,
As you know, there are never any guarantees in relationships, and nothing is ever for certain, not in any relationship - real life of A.
This is what need to keep in mind at this time.
Sunshine
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MoonUnit
I really hope he's not trying to wave real relationship with him under your nose as to manipulate you into terminating pregnancy. What is it really to try out? You've been together for 3 years already. 2 more months not going to change much - and if you'll decide to terminate, you'll be going through so many emotions - and if in the end it won't work out with him, then you may end up thinking you lost it all - you husband, your lover and your baby.
Leave your husband - this part is over. If you want to keep the baby, then this is your decision and you have to go from there. Your AP/xAP decision to move away won't end the relationship - if relationship really has a chance. What will definitely kill it, that moving in together so quickly after such a turmoil that you both are going through now. You both have to deal with ending your primary relationships before you can "try" and see what do you have for each other.
Best of luck to you and keep us posted,
GbG
MoonUnit