AHHHHHH!!!!!!
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AHHHHHH!!!!!!
| Tue, 10-26-2010 - 12:05pm |
Thats all I want to do right now is scream! AP came over this morning ... yes we break the cardinal A rule and visit one another at each others homes ... I have never been in his bedroom and he has never been in mine ... those rooms are off limits ... Anyway ...
Everything was great I felt relaxed and comfortable ... We were intimate ... and there are times when we are intimate that it can be very emotionally overwhelming .. today was one of those times ... and today he also didn't need to run out the door we actually had a little time to lay together ... about 5 minutes before he is ready to leave he says "Are you really going to be able to stop this someday?"

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oh my...ouch, I can feel the sting from here...Of all the times to bring that topic up, it definately isn't then.
I think I would've had to throw something at him :smileywink:
Why do men not understand how hard it is to just be friends when so much has passed between a couple?
anotherseyes
MEN they bring things up at the worse times! I know you don't see it now but be glad he shared those feelings with you ( I know it hurts). You know where his head is at and if something goes down that you don't want at least you won't be surprised. He's going through the guilt and looks like its eating him up inside. I know how he feels but I definitely would not have addressed it at that point in time. I know its not what you want to hear from him and you definitely don't want him to feel that way but just know as time goes on it will only get more complicated.
When is enough enough-you'll know when you reach your max.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Yes, I can feel the sting from here too.
You've got a lot of choices. I
He keeps saying he's sorry for saying anything that he wishes he had a "do over" ... I told him it doesn't matter that even if he hadn't said anything we would have both been laying there thinking different things ... he said he doesn't feel like 'hanging himself' because of what happens between us it's when he thinks about what he has at home and the that he has to go live
Lexi had that audio file for the scream.. that could come in handy..
I am sorry to say this, but he does have to man up and deal with it.
Btw, oops...I didn't know the A cardinal rule!
Nevereasy: I'm not familiar with this post coital "come to jesus" feeling ... but it does always seem to be after that he has these moments ... yet it's been almost a year and a half!!!
but don't believe everything you read online.. :-)
grain or spoon of salt is surely called for..
(Swoop! Dropping in out of stealth mode)
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