All here in PA?

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
All here in PA?
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Mon, 05-24-2010 - 1:57pm

Is everyone here in a sexual affair? I have heard about emotional affairs but it seems like all eventually end up becoming a PA.
AP and I were good friendly neighbors,chatted often ,flirted,confided in each other for sometime before it went physical.I wouldnt say we are in love or anything but do have feelings which are more than friends and it makes sex amazing.

So,is no one here in emotional affair? Do all of those eventually turn PA?

Thanks

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-28-2010
In reply to: chick2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 3:29pm
I'm relatively new here so am probably in the minority. I am currently in an EA, but heading down that slippery slope. I am pretty sure it is mutual, but we haven't talked about it yet. Some days I just want to blurt it out, other days I am just enjoying what is going on between us-the flirting, the lunches, last Friday's ride on his Harley! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: chick2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 4:49pm

I know there are a few people who are in EA's.

anotherseyes

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2009
In reply to: chick2010
Mon, 05-24-2010 - 6:55pm
My A was EA for a long time. We have only been PA for a couple of years. My experience was that the EA is a slippery slope to the PA even with LD. Yet I know there have been posters on MAS who have been in long term EA's. I agree I think the emotional connection makes the physical connection so much stronger, but I think it increases the heartache as well. Even knowing that neither of us is leaving our spouses for one another.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2010
In reply to: chick2010
Tue, 05-25-2010 - 1:39pm
I do very well understand that sex is much more passionate once the feelings and emotions are strong ,not to forget that they add a lot of other stuff to an already charged by A.