All of a Sudden I'm Doubting Him

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Registered: 05-03-2010
All of a Sudden I'm Doubting Him
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Sat, 06-05-2010 - 3:26pm

And I can't even pinpoint why!


We've had a couple of brief conversations after our big "talk" the other night, but nothing significant.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 05-29-2010
Tue, 06-08-2010 - 8:25pm

That is pretty much THE RULE to live by in an A!

I have definitely been guilty of over texting and nothing pushes your AP further away and turns him more off the A than over texting.

I wonder if its because you start to take on more of the SO or DW role, and that is exactly what he is trying to get away from in his A with you.

Once you have texted him, do not text back! Don't check in with him, ask him if he's made, tell him you're concerned about him, or anything.

The ball is in his court. He has read your text and will respond to you at some point.

I know how excruciating it is waiting! I hate it and hate how desperate I start to feel but stay strong! Wait for your response.

It really seems that the best plan of action with AP's is to not be too available. Let them come to you.

Good luck! Hope I didn't sound too critical because I DEFINITELY have done this with my AP and learned the hard way not to over text!

Just lay low and let him come to you.

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