all of a sudden, why the change?

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Registered: 08-08-2009
all of a sudden, why the change?
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Tue, 09-08-2009 - 11:17am
I moved out of my house, it's been a while, and my AP is going through his own issues in his home with gettings together to move out, he's been served divorce papers. 2 weeks ago intimate things happened between my ex and I, I was manpulated and tricked into it. Long story and really don't want to get it into it. I felt sick about it, and wanted total honesty with my AP and told him. He was very hurt and upset about it for about a week, all honesty I thought we would never speak again, but he for gave me. Now this is the reason for my post. Prior to this, my AP would never send me little emails at night to say hi on his own or tell me where he was going or what he was doing. He would email, but not like this.

MoonUnit

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Registered: 10-05-2008
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 2:29pm

Quite possibly your brief "slip-up" that happened between you and your Ex, has prompted your AP to feel that he needs to

" Some would say that i fell from grace;but in reality i leaped! "
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Registered: 08-08-2009
Tue, 09-08-2009 - 3:05pm
he was very upset by it to.

MoonUnit

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Registered: 08-09-2009
Wed, 09-09-2009 - 10:13am
It sounds like he is feeling a little like the OM now. Its amazing when the dynamics change how quick they can be what you want. Sounds so nice for you to have a more attentive partner. *Slaps you hand* for the slip up with the EXH though but at least it doesnt look like you have done permanant damage!
I hope things go well for you :)
Que Sera Sera - Whatever will be, will be.
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Registered: 08-08-2009
Thu, 09-10-2009 - 7:37am
TY, he means everything to me. He has some rough times ahead of him.

MoonUnit

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