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| Fri, 01-16-2009 - 11:04am |
Hello to everyone. Not sure if I am in the right place, and if I get b*tch slapped for what I'm about to post, well, my apologies in advance.
From lurking about here, I think that this is a place for people who are married and having affairs, and also for people who are single and having affairs with married people. I am one who is single, and seeing a married man.
Let me tell you a little about it....One night, after a really really REALLY long day at work, I stopped at a bar for a drink. This is very unusual for me, but it was one of those day's that is so bad, at some point, it becomes funny. So, I'm minding my own business, sipping my martini, and in walks this man. Wow. And for some reason, he comes and sits next to me. Later, he will tell me that the martini sparked his interest-you have to understand, this bar is a college hangout, most of the kids are chugging beer. Where was I? Oh, so Mr Wow sits next to me, and after a few minutes of sideways glances, we strike up a conversation. And I have NEVER ever in my life gone into a bar to pick up a man, or to be picked up. But I knew after talking to him for thirty seconds I wanted to take him home. Or be taken home. It wouldn't have surprised me to see actual sparks of electricity shooting from my body to his, and vice versa. Turns out he is in town on business, and his hotel is right down the street, and me, being the kind person that I am, insist on driving him back, instead of letting him take a cab. Well, you know where this is going....but I didn't sleep with him that first night! I waited. Until the next night. We had dinner, and a couple drinks, and we chatted....and I think in the back of my mind, I knew that there was more to this than meets the eye, and I said something about him having a wife back home, blah blah blah....but I went back to his hotel room, and oh my goodness....there just aren't words. Even now, thinking about it, I just want to bite him!
So, the next morning, I shoot him a text that says, thank you, I had fun. He shoots one back, we do a little flirting. And then, that afternoon, probably right about the time he is headed home, he sends me a text that says "I will see you soon.....and yes, I'm married." I mean, I guess I kinda knew it, but I didn't KNOW it. You know?
So, I'm babbling, and I apologize if you ladies (and gents) just think that I am a pathetic home-wrecker, but.....I think I'm going to see him again. That's just wrong, isn't it? I know, on so many levels, that it is....but I'm going to do it. I am going to have an affair with a man.
Holy S**t.
So, if I need to come in here and talk about this, can I join the group? Because it's not like I can call up my (married) best friend and tell her all about it. I can't tell ANYONE about this, ever. Except nameless, faceless strangers.
Thank you for reading, please please please don't judge me too harshly.
From lurking about here, I think that this is a place for people who are married and having affairs, and also for people who are single and having affairs with married people. I am one who is single, and seeing a married man.
Let me tell you a little about it....One night, after a really really REALLY long day at work, I stopped at a bar for a drink. This is very unusual for me, but it was one of those day's that is so bad, at some point, it becomes funny. So, I'm minding my own business, sipping my martini, and in walks this man. Wow. And for some reason, he comes and sits next to me. Later, he will tell me that the martini sparked his interest-you have to understand, this bar is a college hangout, most of the kids are chugging beer. Where was I? Oh, so Mr Wow sits next to me, and after a few minutes of sideways glances, we strike up a conversation. And I have NEVER ever in my life gone into a bar to pick up a man, or to be picked up. But I knew after talking to him for thirty seconds I wanted to take him home. Or be taken home. It wouldn't have surprised me to see actual sparks of electricity shooting from my body to his, and vice versa. Turns out he is in town on business, and his hotel is right down the street, and me, being the kind person that I am, insist on driving him back, instead of letting him take a cab. Well, you know where this is going....but I didn't sleep with him that first night! I waited. Until the next night. We had dinner, and a couple drinks, and we chatted....and I think in the back of my mind, I knew that there was more to this than meets the eye, and I said something about him having a wife back home, blah blah blah....but I went back to his hotel room, and oh my goodness....there just aren't words. Even now, thinking about it, I just want to bite him!
So, the next morning, I shoot him a text that says, thank you, I had fun. He shoots one back, we do a little flirting. And then, that afternoon, probably right about the time he is headed home, he sends me a text that says "I will see you soon.....and yes, I'm married." I mean, I guess I kinda knew it, but I didn't KNOW it. You know?
So, I'm babbling, and I apologize if you ladies (and gents) just think that I am a pathetic home-wrecker, but.....I think I'm going to see him again. That's just wrong, isn't it? I know, on so many levels, that it is....but I'm going to do it. I am going to have an affair with a man.
Holy S**t.
So, if I need to come in here and talk about this, can I join the group? Because it's not like I can call up my (married) best friend and tell her all about it. I can't tell ANYONE about this, ever. Except nameless, faceless strangers.
Thank you for reading, please please please don't judge me too harshly.

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Welcome attagirl09 - This is definitely the right place!!! Found this board about 4 months ago and it has been a lifesaver for my sanity.
Good luck with your A and hope to see more from you.
Hi,....I want to thank you so very much for giving me the feedback in the manner that you did.
"Trust me I know all about having your membership revoked. This is my third username. "
LOL,LOL,LOL,....that was too funny.
Bar -
Just wanted to thank you for understanding the concerns here - and for agreeing to scale it back - and take it off board for the graphic stuff.
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