Almost 6 months NC

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Registered: 04-15-2009
Almost 6 months NC
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Wed, 07-01-2009 - 12:22am

Horay to me! It's had been almost 6 months NC. I am happy and have moved on. My life is pretty much fine...until...a few weeks ago...his W contacted me via email.

She said some things like she is happy and all. That things between xAP are now fine. Then last week, I recieved another mail and she was asking me specific things about sex that I and xAP have done. Or if xAP ever told me how much he loves me and all. I find this very weird. She said that it is just to clear her doubts on xAP. I haven't answered the query but I am a little bothered with all this development. I'm done with xAP and I do not have any intentions of going back.

Some friends of mine believes that it is xAP who is trying to talk to me or piss me off.

Who do you think is it? What do you think I should do?

I'm still continuing NC and I know I can do this for the rest of my life.

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Registered: 07-09-2008
In reply to: anl20
Wed, 07-01-2009 - 1:36am

hi!


Congratulation!!!

 

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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: anl20
Wed, 07-01-2009 - 8:18am
I think it's probably his wife and she could be checking on the truth of some of the things her H told her about your affair. IF I answered her e-mail at all, it would be to simply say that she has to ask her husband for the answer to those questions and you're not getting in the middle anymore. Then I would tell her that I wish her and her husband well and if she writes again I would no longer be answering her e-mails. If you answer this way it won't matter whether it is really her or your xAP. You won't have to answer any other e-mails or queries and she (or he) would have been told that up front.

Some would say that I fell from grace... but I didn't.

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