Am I being too paranoid?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Am I being too paranoid?
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Fri, 12-11-2009 - 5:16pm

So I want to make sure that I am not crazy and chasing AP away with my paranoid state but what do you all think of this?


I was at a holiday party last week and sat at a table with a few aquaintances, after about 3 hours of drinking consistently (the table not me), one of the

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-07-2009
Fri, 12-11-2009 - 7:24pm

I don't think you need to worry about chasing this man away. After two years with him--why would he leave? He has told you that he has regular sex with his wife. He ignored your Birthday. The one you need to think about is you and why you think he is worth all this 'worry'-if you don't trust that he isn't with multiple partners and are still willing to engage in sex with him then you should start thinking about valuing yourself as a person....you deserve better.

I am not saying this to be unkind. I am in an affair myself. I adore my lover and he adores me. You deserve better.

Take Care.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2009
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 10:19am

Thank you everyone.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2009
Sat, 12-12-2009 - 11:21am
Jap, what does your gut tell you in regards to him fooling around with other women (other than you and his W)?? I have learned, and my guess is that most of us on here know as well, to trust your instinct. Then do what is best for YOU.