Am I Crazy?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2009
Am I Crazy?
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Mon, 02-02-2009 - 6:01pm

I've been seeing my BF now for 9 months.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-31-2008
In reply to: twinkblu
Mon, 02-02-2009 - 8:54pm

>>Unfortunately there is NO room for me, BUT next year I will definitely be included. Maybe it was the just the way he said it, but I got upset.
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It's not the way he said it, it the way he treats you. You are not his priority - and he should not be yours. Good luck!

VG

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-06-2005
In reply to: twinkblu
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 8:57am

WOW ususally a lurker but had to repond to this one...please know that any boyfriend who says he loves would include you even if the plans were made a year ago. He just sounds like a selfish jerk who only cares for himself and you would be better off running in the opposite direction.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-12-2009
In reply to: twinkblu
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:18am

No not

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
In reply to: twinkblu
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 9:29am

I don't think you're crazy.


iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2009
In reply to: twinkblu
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 4:13pm

Thanks for all the great POSTS - but I have to clarify one thing withclarity:


I'd be upset if my b/f was heading off on a boat with a group of women friends who, he was stupid enough to tell me, consider him their b/f and have in the past flashed him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2009
In reply to: twinkblu
Tue, 02-03-2009 - 4:27pm
Just wanted to tell everyone that I have not heard from my bf ~ soon to be EXMM!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2009
In reply to: twinkblu
Wed, 02-04-2009 - 1:38pm

twinkblu,


38 yo male here in an A for 9 mos. My gf comes first in everything. It sounds like this guy puts you in 10th place priority. I would NEVER do that to my GF if I cared about her. He sounds like a player and if thats what you like, more power to you. But sounds like you should find somebody who puts you first and not "next year" Good luck and keep us posted.