Am I doing the right thing?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Am I doing the right thing?
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Fri, 07-17-2009 - 10:39am

If you want things back to the way they once were with AP, is NC really the best way to go?


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Sat, 07-18-2009 - 1:48pm
Wanting "back" in the sense like having him as AP again or friend or colleague?
NC can work either way.For some it makes the heart grow fonder while for some it may fade away.
You havent said enough to see what your ex is feeling but i guess he might be missing it as well.you may want to explain more.I havent been here for long,so might have missed your story.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2009
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 12:25pm

Thanks for your post. I’m not sure, some days I want the A back, but I think mostly I just want our friendship back.


iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Mon, 07-20-2009 - 2:28pm
This is just my opinion after reading your post : I guess,you both want the A back ! The way you and your AP are behaving is not how friends do.Sexual tension building up?? Tight lipped about the things wanting to discuss??
Finding excuses to be close to you is a dead give away,dolly!If playing little games( not the head games gone too far) gives you what you want,no harm done.If that is what you want.Everything is fair ... something has been said on those lines,i dont remember cleary,getting old by each day, regretting about never finding real love.