i'd tell DH you are unhappy and try counseling. although it may appear you are trying to repair your marriage (and it's possible), counseling may also be the way to let him know you are on your way out. a good therapist will be able to help the two of you accept that decision.
if as you said, you are not leaving for the ex but because you want to find more than you have - that sounds like a reasonable decision on you part. not pie in the sky.
have you tried other boards about ending a marriage? Mrs.
I think we'd have a lot to talk about, I'm not totally comfortable spilling everything on here yet though. Please email me. greyblueeyes41@yahoo.com
Our situations are EXTREMELY similiar.
i'd tell DH you are unhappy and try counseling. although it may appear you are trying to repair your marriage (and it's possible), counseling may also be the way to let him know you are on your way out. a good therapist will be able to help the two of you accept that decision.
if as you said, you are not leaving for the ex but because you want to find more than you have - that sounds like a reasonable decision on you part. not pie in the sky.
have you tried other boards about ending a marriage?
Mrs.
I think Mrs. really already expressed my exact thoughts!