Am I handling this the right way?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Am I handling this the right way?
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Sat, 01-10-2009 - 5:41pm

A little background.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 10:24pm

Just more of an update.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-24-2008
Sun, 01-11-2009 - 10:52pm
First off, I don't believe there is either a right or wrong way to have an affair, but I think the way you are dealing with things is comendable. You are not pressuring him and you are keeping yourself together, for the most part. Perhaps your AP is looking at your affair differently than you? In his mind he feels he needs to make a decision between you and his wife?
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-19-2008
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 11:15am
gabby, yes, I believe that's how he looks at it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-22-2008
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 1:19pm

My AP and I went through a similar time in our relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-15-2007
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 2:12pm

You remind me a lot of myself in that I worked with my AP for a total of five years.

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