am i overreacting?

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Registered: 03-08-2010
am i overreacting?
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Wed, 04-28-2010 - 5:42pm

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Edited 6/8/2010 1:01 am ET by onaride
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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 6:36pm

I can totally understand feeling the "sting" of not being able to get together with your AP. It's happened to me where we were going to try and get together and it didnt work out for various reasons.

 
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Registered: 04-06-2010
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 7:33pm

Hi, on a ride


Am I getting this straight you let your ap come over to your house ? oh, my God, I would never ever dare to bring my ap over. Even though I almost did this Monday I just could not do it. So, we are force to meet in hotel because he lives with a bunch of male roommate. Which I have met.


Now on your

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Registered: 06-09-2003
Wed, 04-28-2010 - 11:47pm

I don't blame you at all for feeling stung.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 04-29-2010 - 8:10am

I would feel stung too. I would actually feel the same way if a friend of mine canceled last minute because she'd gotten home and was all cozy and too tired to follow through with plans we had.

That said, as lady still brought up, being at your house is a particularly dangerous place to be. Scroll down to the "resources" topic here, and read through the "D-day" thread. People are more likely to be discovered in the worst possible way by having APs at their house. The discovery can be by a child as well as a spouse this way - I've heard both. No matter how careful you think you're being, things can happen, plans can change, sudden illnesses can bring people home sooner than expected, etc. Be careful onaride!

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