Am I too late?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2007
Am I too late?
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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 7:29am

I posted about a year ago that I was in my A for

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:07am

I don't think you're too late.


People usually go back to their ex's because it's easy and comfortable.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 8:24am
Your best bet is to talk to him and tell him your plan and maybe show your sepeartion papers .If its too late for him,you still wont regret as i am sure you will find a more suitable man.D and S are tough even if you want to leave by choice and had had enough.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 11:15am

I don't think you are too late.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2006
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 2:01pm

When I left my H, I half-expected my XAP to leave his W. He had talked about it forever. I had ended the A to deal with my M, which led to the divorce. XAP never left. He is distraught that I have a boyfriend now. I have to ask--what did you expect me to do? There were too many broken promises.


I hope you aren't too late, but it may be.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-04-2007
Sun, 11-16-2008 - 6:24am

Yes I hope it is not too late.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-12-2008
Sun, 11-16-2008 - 8:34am
Thats confusing ! the co-worker is __?___ to your AP.please fill in.is she his another AP or gf?
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-02-2000
Mon, 11-17-2008 - 1:31pm
Well, the only person that knows whether it's too late or not is the AP. However, it seems to me that this issue should not be the main one. What seems more important is resolving your marriage issues. Focus on that. Whether you're with him or not, you're not happily married. You need to figure all of that out, and if AP should fit into the picture, great.