Your best bet is to talk to him and tell him your plan and maybe show your sepeartion papers .If its too late for him,you still wont regret as i am sure you will find a more suitable man.D and S are tough even if you want to leave by choice and had had enough.
When I left my H, I half-expected my XAP to leave his W. He had talked about it forever. I had ended the A to deal with my M, which led to the divorce. XAP never left. He is distraught that I have a boyfriend now. I have to ask--what did you expect me to do? There were too many broken promises.
Well, the only person that knows whether it's too late or not is the AP. However, it seems to me that this issue should not be the main one. What seems more important is resolving your marriage issues. Focus on that. Whether you're with him or not, you're not happily married. You need to figure all of that out, and if AP should fit into the picture, great.
I don't think you're too late.
People usually go back to their ex's because it's easy and comfortable.
I don't think you are too late.
When I left my H, I half-expected my XAP to leave his W. He had talked about it forever. I had ended the A to deal with my M, which led to the divorce. XAP never left. He is distraught that I have a boyfriend now. I have to ask--what did you expect me to do? There were too many broken promises.
I hope you aren't too late, but it may be.
Yes I hope it is not too late.