Anniversary reflections - long
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Anniversary reflections - long
| Fri, 04-23-2010 - 9:57am |
Today is my 6th anniversary with AP. We've had very little drama through the years. No D days. We've always been very careful.

Welcome to MAS me_time!
I see a lot of myself in your post. It's been 11 years for me and my OM also. One big difference is that he's single.
One thing I decided early on, and told my OM to do also, was to make big life decisions as if he were not a part of the equation. Since I've always been honest with him that I would not leave my M, if he should get an opportunity to move elsewhere, or date someone, etc., he should act and decide the same way he would if I was not in his life, and I would do the same. If my H and I were considering a move that would benefit our family or life situation, I would have to make the decision based just on my family's welfare. As bereft as I would be if we were to be apart because of that decision, I THINK that's what I would do. (I say "think" because it's never been tested really.)
Keep posting here and sharing. Everyone's opinion is helpful, maybe someone else has something to say, or some personal experience.
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