Another baby step.....

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Registered: 01-20-2004
Another baby step.....
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Wed, 04-14-2004 - 5:30pm
Well, as you all know I met his family on Easter (what a freakin' nightmare...). Well, he has taken another baby step in our R. First, he has finally admitted to his ex that we ARE together. He didn't admit when we first started seeing each other but that is a good thing....considering she still talks to my stbxH. But, now that he and I have both left our former R's he has admitted to her that we are together....finally! The next baby step....he has invited me to DD's teeball game tonight. I am going to go. We are going to go together. His ex will definitely be there and his mother will probably be there too (ach...that is me gagging). Of course, as soon as he invited me I ran home on my lunch break to blow dry my hair (it was a mess today) so that I could look cute for the ex (I have to look better than her...although that isn't hard)! I'm sure it'll be another evening of dirty looks and whispering (wow, kind of like reliving Easter) but at least I don't have to sit with them this time and he and I can enjoy the game together...away from them...and I can actually show him a little bit of affection in public (not too much, the kids will be there). Anyway, it was just another baby step in the right direction and I was happy about it so I thought I'd share it with you all who have been there since I first decided to have an A in the first place! Thanks for listening guys...and gals!
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Registered: 10-13-2003
Wed, 04-14-2004 - 5:44pm
baby steps are good!