Another Newbie Seeking Support

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2008
Another Newbie Seeking Support
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Sat, 12-06-2008 - 6:43pm

Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined I would be typing my story of an A.


Little background......DH had an affair over 8

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-25-2008
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 3:45pm

Hi Goddess, and welcome to the "other side!"

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 9:00am

Welcome!


Yes it is hard to stop. My best advice for you is to think long and hard about your M. Do you want to end it? Is it beyond repair? If it is worth saving an A takes you away from your M and makes it hard to work on issues. Your A sounds fairly new and if you desire to stop the time would be now before it become too hard. I can understand where you are coming from. I too was lonely in my M and felt neglected, and unloved. We were two people living separate lives. I since left and am almost done with a D. Be honest with your self in what you want out of your M and this A. The hard part come when you know what you want to do and finding the courage to do it. Believe me working on your M ore leaving is not easy, but when you do it right it is worth it. please kepp posting and let us know how you are.







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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2008
Tue, 12-09-2008 - 10:39am

Thank you both for your responses.


Well DH and I have had several frank/deep conversations within the last few days and he has realized how much he had been neglecting me and how serious I am about not