anotherseyes - how r u?

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anotherseyes - how r u?
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Fri, 08-20-2010 - 11:29pm
Hi Another - on the board tonight and thinking we hadn't heard much from you in the last week or so?

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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 8:03am

"I mean I know we all have cheated, but I bet we didnt start it while at the same time telling our partners how important they are to us and how much we should start afresh!"

I've seen many cases right here Iggy, where there is a d-day, and the APs do exactly that as they continue to see each other behind the spouses' backs, so it is not uncommon. What's different is that AE's H started a NEW R; in most cases it's reassuring the spouse that they are so important blah blah blah while continuing to see the AP in an ongoing R. I don't think there's much difference between the two situations.

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Mon, 08-23-2010 - 8:05am
Justlivin' is right AE. At least the decision is made for you at this point. Think how much harder this would have been if you'd cut things off with AP and made a true attempt to revive your marriage. At least you found this out before actually jumping in and committing to rebuilding.

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 08-23-2010 - 11:22am

Thank you everyone.


It's been a tough weekend for sure: I think I cried more this weekend than I have in the last few years combined.

anotherseyes

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