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any advice?
| Sat, 05-15-2004 - 10:32am |
Ok i am a MM looking for someone to talk to about my situation cause i have to tell someone....I amd in an A with W's best friend..we have all been friends for about 5 yrs now OW even comes on family vacations and stuff with us. Well we have been in an A for about 6 months now and we said it would be just friends, no strings, blah blah blah. Well now things are getting deeper and while neither of us will admit it there are feelings and strings. Bottom line is OW is now going away for 3 months. she leaves in 15 days...im feeling, alone right now. OW is only one who understands me anymore, the only one i like talking to about my feelings and stuff. I have my guy friends and W but i cant share my deepest feelings with them..Its always so hard for me and OW to be together as it is now, And i dont even wanna think of summer without her. Any advice would be appriciated. Thanks in advance

Gotta always think positive!
dd
You give great advice.... I get a lot out of your posts. Just thought I'd pass this along!
v.
Thank you for that! I think we all are great at seeing the obvious unless it is our own EMA!! But I guess that is what makes this message board so great for us all huh??
dd
thx. hon.
Maybe if you just tell her you'll miss certain things you do now together or every day things she does that will be not quite as serious as the "OH I'm going to miss you soooo much". Will she be able to contact you or you her at all while she is away? I don't know what else to tell you, just hang in there and believe it or not the months will go by and before you know it she will be back. But do keep busy!
dd