Any Advice?? She Won't Give Up!!!
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Any Advice?? She Won't Give Up!!!
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 1:07am |
You've probably seen me here a few times giving advice. If you remember, 6 years ago i almost had that "affair" with a much older mm. I backed out; and met a great guy a few months later. Well, i guess you could say when i first met my now H, i was considered the ow. He wasn't married, but had a gf. He couldn't make up his mind it seemed, but did marry me instead of the gf. Well, that was 5 years ago we were married. To this day, she will not give up. She hates me. She is now married too, but won't give up. She moved across the street from us last summer, but only 2 months. Well, haven't seen her since then, but she comes up to my mother in a store today, and says she will personally come to my home and attack me. I am afraid, because my husband; her ex; isn't here sometimes. She is lying on me, saying she talked to the police, saying i follow her all the time which is a lie. Why won't she give up on him?? I mean, he chose me. He's still with me. She's married. But is making my life a living hell. It has been since last summer i saw her, and she's still making her threats to me. I guess she is still bitter because in her mind, she didn't win. But they weren't even married when he was seeing me. Should i be afraid?? i mean, sure i was the ow at the time, but he chose who he loved; Me. So why don't she leave me and him alone now??? it's been too long, and she needs to get over it. Any advice?? should i be afraid of her; or is she just mouthing off?? I always like to come to the board here; because i can relate so much. Any advice would be appreciated. After years of losing him, hanging on to hope that isn't there, making threats to me, and wanting to hurt me. I am sick of it.

PS: Sometimes I take it all as Karma, if you know what I mean. After all I must have contributed something to their break up....
Edited 3/4/2004 11:04:24 AM ET by julietsfate
hey heavenlyangel -- girl, you need to document all xGF's actions/phone calls/nasty comments to you and others
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