Any MW with Single AP?
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Any MW with Single AP?
| Tue, 11-03-2009 - 12:16pm |
Hello, Im wondering how many of us are married with single APs? Is it just me or does it seem like its so much harder? Being that my AP and I live over 2hrs from each other,I find myself constantly wondering what he is doing? Obviously he is dating other women and so im worried about not getting out of my marriage in time to be with him. Sometimes I dont even know if he wants anything long term with me other than sex.

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I think this thread is interesting in the fact that the discussion of having feelings for 2 men at once is hard. When a MM has an A with a SW, the man is most times labelled a cake-eater and user. I know that males have a different mindest on emotions, but this thread certainly shows the other side of the coin. It IS possible for the MM to be completely confused and have real feelings for his AP even if he is M. The money, kids and not hurting your DS are genuine concerns, but when the heart is involved, nothing is easy.
Gives me some comfort that we are all basically the same no matter what gender.
I never dated again nor did feel any desire to,my very own choice.i lost some friends and relations on the way but they couldnt give me the emotional satisfaction which she and i have.i for sure believe in making someone believe through actions than words.no amount of my telling her would have made her believe that she is the only one in my life but my actions surely did.once we had the real talk,it ended all our insecurities and we developed a stronger bond.the only thing we didnt do was play head games ( which are very common in the A's i read here and imo,head games lead to an end sooner or later).agreed that we had ups and downs but never played with the emotions as they hurt and we wanted nothing but love and happiness.
now i am much older and still feel that nothing requires more honesty than an affair,its ironic! I last had sex about 20 years ago with my gf ( MW), thats a price i have paid but i had a lot in my younger days,a lot but it wasnt worth the emotional satisfaction i have now.do i miss it? not anymore.but if it was to be with her,i would jump for it.
if your SM are sincere,you would know it.they wont play these head games ,you wont need these boards to decode them as they will be pure and simple.i am still on the rollercoaster ride but enjoying now,to say the least.
Thank you SO much for your point of view.
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