Any "success" stories? Just curious.
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Any "success" stories? Just curious.
| Sat, 10-11-2008 - 11:40pm |
Complete newbie here, and was just curious if there were any stories where the AP's (I'm assuming that stands for "Affair Partner") ended up together. I, of course, realize that not all - or even most - AP's start or continue a EMA with the intention of ending up together, but I was just curious if anyone has. And, if so, did your/their SO find out about the EMA, or did you/their AP end up

Hello and welcome to the board. Please tell us your story, you'll find a whole heap of very supportive people here to help you through the day to day of an A.
There is a post on the abbreviations in the "humor me" thread that I've bumped up to the top for you, but you've done just fine in your post so far :)
There are some success stories on this board where they've ended up with their AP's but they are very few and far between. They are the exception not the norm. I recently read in an article (no idea how accurate) that the figure is less than 3%. AP has told me he will not leave his W, so I am not one of them.
There is a thread from about a month ago about this topic - "Who does it work out for?" that you might like to read also.
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlmyaffair&msg=54681.1&x=y
Pisces
Hi Msp -
Welcome to the board.
I met my AP at work. We were both married, and both left our spouses for each other. Due to retarded acts on my behalf he went back to his W. I found out a week later that I was pregnant by him, but to further complicate things AP had a vasectomy five years prior. Now he thinks I cheated on him, and is back w/ his W, and I am alone to cope w/ this mess. BUT good news prevails! Thank God for DNA! Now AP and I have been back together for a year, and he is in the process of moving out as we speak. Our son is now 6yrs old.
There are SOME happy stories, but from what I read there are many more horror stories.
Hey thanks! The abbreviations post helped tremendously, and checked out the other link w/ the "success" stories. There was another link w/in that link that I checked out too.
I appreciate everyone's responses, and will definitely get back with my story later... I'm not so sure how everything will work out.
I may be a success story.
I know what you mean.