any suggestions?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
any suggestions?
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Sun, 08-31-2008 - 11:23am
This is going to sound like the typical issue with A, on again off again. as some of you have read a few of my posts before, mine has been going on/off for 20 years( yea I know). Lately, over the past months he has an issue with guilt(religious reasons) which I sort of
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-23-2008
In reply to: rat62
Mon, 09-01-2008 - 6:18am

If you have been in an A for 20 years, you should be an expert and giving advice here instead of asking ! jk, ha ha ha.

Just consider this as another 'off' of the on and off period.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2007
In reply to: rat62
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 3:13am

Did he agree with your assessment that his guilt signifies he doesn't want you and if he could get out of this he would?


My guy has always battled heavily with guilt.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-02-2008
In reply to: rat62
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 10:02am

Wow you have me beat, my affair has been 15 yrs. But I understand what you are saying. Sometimes we have the guilt thing, but I scrug it off and so does he, we know we can't live without one another. Like someone else said, maybe this is an "off time'


iVillage Member
Registered: 09-15-2007
In reply to: rat62
Tue, 09-02-2008 - 8:11pm
thanks for