Any Words Of Advice/Support

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Registered: 01-27-2009
Any Words Of Advice/Support
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Tue, 01-27-2009 - 6:09pm

Hello To Everyone !

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Registered: 12-25-2007
Tue, 01-27-2009 - 6:47pm

First of all, welcome.


I don't have words of advice or wisdom per se. My own A is in a tricky spot right now due to a "semi" dday, but we are trying very hard to work through that.


It sounds like you are quite happy and content with the way that things are. That is a good thing! :) I guess my only advice would be to protect that. Don't get careless or think that you are ever truly "safe". Be vigilant about guarding your relationship.


This is a great place to come and gain support whether by posting or reading or both. I am sure you have some insights of your own to offer so don't be afraid to jump in.


Mom-

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Registered: 08-08-2005
Wed, 01-28-2009 - 9:50pm

Hey Judy,

My M is as long as yours, so i know what that is like. i also know what it is like to feel alone in a crowded house and to find a connection that feeds your starving heart.

My only concern (other than the general risk) is the connection of your AP to a GF. it seems his has an opportunity to change that relationship - postpone the move or cut it back. so why is he moving ahead with both of you? has he indicated that you are clearly just a sideline? or is his relationship more complicated with GF than it sounds?

Just don't want you to get hurt.
Mrs.

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Registered: 01-27-2009
Thu, 01-29-2009 - 8:48pm

Hi Mom,


Thanks for your words of advice.

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Registered: 01-27-2009
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 2:56pm

Hi,


25 years is a long time aint it ?