I don't have words of advice or wisdom per se. My own A is in a tricky spot right now due to a "semi" dday, but we are trying very hard to work through that.
It sounds like you are quite happy and content with the way that things are. That is a good thing! :) I guess my only advice would be to protect that. Don't get careless or think that you are ever truly "safe". Be vigilant about guarding your relationship.
This is a great place to come and gain support whether by posting or reading or both. I am sure you have some insights of your own to offer so don't be afraid to jump in.
My M is as long as yours, so i know what that is like. i also know what it is like to feel alone in a crowded house and to find a connection that feeds your starving heart.
My only concern (other than the general risk) is the connection of your AP to a GF. it seems his has an opportunity to change that relationship - postpone the move or cut it back. so why is he moving ahead with both of you? has he indicated that you are clearly just a sideline? or is his relationship more complicated with GF than it sounds?
First of all, welcome.
I don't have words of advice or wisdom per se. My own A is in a tricky spot right now due to a "semi" dday, but we are trying very hard to work through that.
It sounds like you are quite happy and content with the way that things are. That is a good thing! :) I guess my only advice would be to protect that. Don't get careless or think that you are ever truly "safe". Be vigilant about guarding your relationship.
This is a great place to come and gain support whether by posting or reading or both. I am sure you have some insights of your own to offer so don't be afraid to jump in.
Mom-
Hey Judy,
My M is as long as yours, so i know what that is like. i also know what it is like to feel alone in a crowded house and to find a connection that feeds your starving heart.
My only concern (other than the general risk) is the connection of your AP to a GF. it seems his has an opportunity to change that relationship - postpone the move or cut it back. so why is he moving ahead with both of you? has he indicated that you are clearly just a sideline? or is his relationship more complicated with GF than it sounds?
Just don't want you to get hurt.
Mrs.
Hi Mom,
Thanks for your words of advice.
Hi,
25 years is a long time aint it ?